With nearly 240,000 new breast cancer patients diagnosed annually, it is imperative to understand breast cancer charities and what they have to offer to patients and their families. These diagnoses are being given to our friends, mothers, sisters, daughters, and even men throughout our communities.  Non-profit organizations can and do help millions of breast cancer fighters every year.  With staggering numbers like these, many individuals want to help.  However, in today’s world it is important that donors are smart about their donations and who they choose to support.  If you are passionate about helping those affected by breast cancer and want to help, finding a worthy and effective cause to get behind is likely important to you. There are many things to consider when reviewing charities to help ensure that your money is not going to a fly by night operation or to a breast cancer scam, operated by someone not officially affiliated with the organization you mean to support.

How to Choose Your Charity Wisely

If you have been touched by breast cancer, then you understand the importance of research, direct aid, education and awareness.  Determining which program(s) you would like to volunteer or donate to is critical and is completely in your control.

• Long time philanthropist Dan Pallotta and charity advocate recommends that you contact a charity directly and learn about their programs.  Examine their services and ask how they are performing.  Going directly to the charity for answers can help you understand how your donation is making a difference.
• Request testimonials from individuals who have been assisted by the organization.  Program participants are often the best indicator of whether a breast cancer charity is being effective.
• Pallotta also says that inquiring about future program goals is another great way to understand the vision and direction of an organization.

How to Donate

There are many legitimate concerns about breast cancer fundraising scams.  Most non-profit organizations have an online presence that includes a giving component – give your breast cancer donation directly to the organization.  This makes giving easier and more secure.  Also, giving your donation directly to the organization helps them maximize your dollar by eliminating fundraising costs.

A Non-Profit Should be Transparent

Non-profits must file an annual Form 990’s to the Internal Revenue Service.  Request to receive a copy.  A reputable organization should not have any problems supplying you with this.  Often, an organization will post their most recent 990 filing on their website for the public to review.  In addition, most non-profits create an annual report.  This is their financial information placed in a reader friendly format.  While this is not required by regulatory bodies, often an organization will take the time to make an annual report specifically formatted for easy reading for its supporters.  If a charity you are thinking of donating to compiles an annual report, it is suggested that you request a copy for review.  Again, with most reputable charities, their annual report, like their 990, will be available directly on their web site.

A Non-Profit Should Have Annual Independent Reviews from Industry Experts

Ask a breast cancer charity if an independent auditing firm completed their 990 filings and their Financial Statements.   Most charities, in order to remain compliant, must allow third party experts to review and finalize its annual reporting.  This type of independent review and scrutiny can help the donor feel more comfortable that the organization they are generously giving to is not a breast cancer charity scam.

Your donation and support matters – to the men, women and families struggling to find the resources they need while dealing with their diagnosis.  Making sure your donation counts toward the work of legitimate charities is as important as the donation itself.  Educate yourself to ensure that your gift goes to the right place.

Breast Cancer Awareness: Sexual Health, Part I

Sex. It’s a topic women aren’t always comfortable discussing with their oncologists or primary care doctors – and frankly, in the midst of treatments, not often the first priority when survival is top of mind.

“Women have trouble when they are not prepared for the physical symptoms resulting from treatment and don’t have clear expectations of how that may impact their sex lives,” says Jeanne Carter, Ph.D., head of the Female Sexual Medicine and Women’s Health Program at Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center. “We know that chemotherapy – depending on the treatment regime and the patient’s age – can impact the ovaries and put a woman into premature menopause.”

Endocrine therapies such as aromatase inhibitors cause hormonal deprivation, resulting in vaginal dryness, pain and discomfort. “This obviously can have a negative effect on interest in sexual activity and the ability to become aroused,” says Carter. The good news, she says, is that simple strategies can provide great relief for many women during treatment and into survivorship.

Moisturizing for Health, Comfort

Many cancer therapies result in changes to the tissues of the vagina: atrophy, less elasticity and moisture, and the inability to produce lubrication. “Lubrication is important for touch and penetration, and to avoid tearing during intercourse,” explains Carter. Most women and even doctors, she says, don’t understand the importance of using moisturizers. “They are not for sexual activity. They help to improve the health of tissues and allow them the capacity to move.” Clinical care and outcomes at the Female Sexual Medicine Program have shown that moisturizing – internally and externally – can help to improve sexual response by increasing comfort and pleasure.

“Moisturizers help with gynecological exams, intercourse, and overall comfort.” But, Carter warns, consistency and frequency (beyond the manufacturer’s instructions) must be maintained. “What we have learned is that internal vaginal moisturizers should be applied three to five times a week, in addition to moisturizing externally, to adequately address the symptoms women are experiencing after cancer treatment.”

Carter recommends over-the-counter, non-hormonal internal moisturizers to be inserted into the vagina at bedtime: Replens cream, K-Y Brand Liquidbeads, Carlson Key-E (vitamin E vaginal suppository), Hyalo GYN^® and vitamin E capsules (poke a hole in the capsule prior to vaginal insertion). External moisturizers recommended for the vulva, introitus [opening of vagina] and clitoral area – all prone to atrophy as well – include: vitamin E oil, coconut oil and Replens cream.

“These are simple resources you can use throughout your life – just like putting lotion on your skin,” says Carter. “It only takes a few minutes and can make such a difference.”

Strengthening of the Pelvic Floor

Standard Kegel exercises can also reduce vaginal pain in breast cancer patients. “We teach women how to have awareness and control over muscles that could be working against them and contribute to pain,” says Carter. “Increased pelvic-floor strength and tone can improve circulation, which in turn can enhance arousal.”

The key is to do the Kegel exercises in a challenging way, says Carter. “To build up muscle strength and tone – which is what research shows is beneficial – you need to continually challenge those muscles.” Her study participants began slowly: holding a contraction for three seconds then relaxing three seconds, for ten repetitions. The goal is to achieve muscle fatigue then stop. “Eventually a woman may increase to 12 or 15 repetitions.” Then she may lessen repetitions but increase the length of the contractions. Scroll to the Kegel Exercises section of the American Cancer Society’s “Preventing Pain During Sex” guide for specific instruction.

Says Carter of talking about sexual concerns, “The onus is for both the patient and the provider. The doctor needs to ask if you’re having difficulties, but you need to say, ‘I have some questions; do you have information or anyone I can speak with?’”

Recommended Reading:

• American Cancer Society’s Guide: “Sexuality for the Woman with Cancer”
• Sexuality and Fertility After Cancer by Leslie Schover
• LiveStrong – a reputable source for general articles about women’s sexuality. Search terms: female sexuality, sex and breast cancer, female sexual health.
• Google or Amazon, using the key search terms above, as well as cancer and sexuality; sexuality and breast cancer.

Visit us later this month to learn more about body image issues after breast cancer and their impact on sexuality.

September 22, 2012 – The Empower One, Breast Cancer Awareness Walk was a sensational day!  Supporters from around the country joined us at The Phoenix Zoo, to raise awareness and offer encouragement for those who are battling the disease.  The walk was attended by 2010 Biggest Loser Winner John Rhode, Miss Phoenix, The Arizona Cardinals, multiple professional athletes and many more.

The walk more than doubled in size from the previous year, with advocates swarming the zoo decked out in PINK!  Survivors had loved ones showing support for both them and the cause! Participants eagerly lined up at the starting entrance for those they love.  Family and friends where excited to be a part of an event that is offering help to those in need today.

The Empower One, Breast Cancer Awareness Walks assist in the continued funding of programs offering direct assistance to patients and their families.  The funds raised also provide an opportunity to expand the reach of our continued awareness and education efforts.

How did this walk help?

• $1.1 million worth of direct aid was received by breast cancer patients and their families in the Arizona community.
• Monthly support groups were funded for breast cancer survivors and their loved ones.  These groups offer emotional strength, promoting full recovery.
• Non-medical In-Home Care has been granted to women after surgical procedures and other various treatments for breast cancer.
• Over 25,000 pieces of educational material was distributed in Arizona, raising awareness on risk factors and earlier detection symptoms.
• 167 free mammograms were gifted to high risk, low income women.

Is it possible for women who are undergoing breast cancer treatment to benefit from regular exercise?

“Absolutely,” says Jennifer Bea, Ph.D. “Exercise can improve fitness, strength and body composition.” The assistant professor of medicine at University of Arizona says it also can decrease insulin and glucose in the bloodstream, assisting with weight maintenance, which is critical for breast cancer patients and may also reduce risk of recurrence. “There are certain markers of chronic inflammation associated with cancer that can decrease with exercise as well.”

Mari Justin says physical activity is one of things that kept her spirit strong. During treatments, she ran three miles each day and lifted weights. As a result, she suffered only negligible side effects from chemotherapy and radiation. “Even if you feel tired, you have to push on and make sure you get the cardio and weights needed to feel good and be healthy.”

What exercise routine is best?

Bea recommends consulting the Physical Activity Guide for Americans, as well as the Exercise Guidelines for Cancer Survivors, from the American College of Sports Medicine.

Her mantra with any exercise routine: start low and go slow. “There will be days during treatment when the most you can do is a lap around the house,” she says. “That’s okay. The key is simply to avoid inactivity.”

In Bea’s exercise study with breast cancer patients, the weekly goal was three days per week of supervised resistance (weight) training and building up to 150 minutes of moderate exercise or 75 minutes of vigorous aerobic activity at home. Physical activity ran the gamut from walking and dancing to bicycling and Wii Fit.

“Use the talk test to determine exercise intensity,” she says. “If you can talk but not sing, you’re in the moderate zone. Vigorous exercise means you can’t say more than a few words at a time and can’t speak in sentences.”

Bea’s early results show an increase in lean body mass (important for weight maintenance) for those with the best attendance, as well as improvements in strength. “Physical activity also helps with quality of life,” says Bea. “Exercise can reduce anxiety and decrease fatigue.”

Medical Approval to Exercise

Bea says medical consultation before starting moderate exercise is not always necessary in survivorship. However, she says it never hurts to ask your physician, “Is there any reason I shouldn’t?” If you are currently undergoing treatment, have experienced bony metastases, are on hormone-suppressive therapy, or have experienced cardiotoxicity resulting from chemotherapy, you should seek medical approval before beginning. Those who are immunocompromised may also choose home workouts and outdoor activities over public gyms that may have greater exposure to bacteria.

Weight training, Bea says, is also safer when supervised by a personal trainer. If seeking an exercise coach, she suggests Certified Cancer Exercise Trainers (follow the instructions on their ProFinder database to identify someone locally). National Cancer Institute Cancer Centers also offer clinical care, trials, and often exercise-research opportunities for interested patients.

When to Halt Exercise

If you experience any of the following symptoms during your exercise routine, discontinue and consult your physician or oncologist:

• Chest pain
• Blurred vision
• Abnormal fatigue
• Pallor or cyanosis
• Irregular heartbeat
• Acute onset of nausea
• Joint pain or swelling
• Abnormal muscle pain
• Excessive shortness of breath
• Unusual fatigue or muscle weakness
• Dizziness, lightheadedness, disorientation
• Numbness and tingling in the arms or legs
• Vomiting or diarrhea within 24 hours – should be reported to doc
• Changes in arm/shoulder symptoms or swelling that occurs (reduce or avoid upper body exercises until evaluated medically)

Exercise After Treatment

Exercise after breast cancer treatment also has proven its benefits. The Nurses’ Health Study reports a 43 percent decrease in recurrence of breast cancer for those patients who walked an average of only three hours per week at a moderate pace. “Just doing that small amount of exercise during or after treatment is better than any pill,” says Bea.

Finally, she offers this advice: “Be kind to yourself. Your tolerance for physical activity will change from session to session. Don’t expect to improve every time. Do what you can.” She adds, “And remember, doing something is better than nothing.”

What is Accelerated Partial Breast Irradiation (APBI)?

In stark comparison with the standard 6 week course of radiation after a lumpectomy, multiple published research studies have now revealed that many women with early-stage breast cancer can be treated with “accelerated partial breast irradiation” (APBI) very safely over a 5 day period.   Highly respected national medical societies such as the American Brachytherapy Society (ABS), American Society of Breast Surgeons (ASBS), and the American Society for Radiation Oncology (ASTRO) have also set up guidelines on which patients would be optimal candidates for these treatments.

This has been a very popular radiation option for many women who are found to be candidates for this type of breast cancer treatment.

What is the present standard of care after a lumpectomy for breast cancer?

The present standard of care for the treatment of early-stage breast cancer is a lumpectomy followed by breast radiation.   There are different ways to receive radiation therapy to the breast.  In the United States, the radiation courses have typically been daily for approximately 6 weeks.  In Canada and Europe, many women are treated with a 3-4 week course of daily radiation.  As mentioned earlier, some women are now candidates for a 1 week course of “partial breast radiation” (also known as “5-day radiation therapy”) if they meet specific criteria.

Whole Breast Radiation vs. Partial Breast Radiation?

The standard of care in the past for radiation therapy after a lumpectomy has been “whole breast radiation.”  The benefits of radiation treatments to the whole breast after a lumpectomy have been studied for over 40 years.  This technique uses an external high energy x-ray beam to deliver radiation to the entire breast, and requires 6-7 weeks of daily treatments. However, this extended treatment schedule can in some situations be a significant disruption to a woman’s life; whether it is interference with family, the cost of missed work, or the difficulty of traveling to a medical facility every day for several weeks.

Partial breast radiation was developed to address these issues.  This form of breast cancer radiation allows physicians to precisely deliver treatment to the lumpectomy cavity and surrounding tissue. This results in two significant advantages over whole breast radiation: it reduces treatment time from several weeks to just 5 days and spares healthy tissue from unnecessary radiation.   Initial research indicates partial breast radiation can be as effective as whole breast radiation in terms of survival and controlling local recurrences in many situations.  If you have been diagnosed with early-stage breast cancer and are interested in learning if you are a candidate for this type of radiation treatment, please discuss this with your treating physicians. 

How is Accelerated Partial Breast Irradiation (APBI) Performed?

There are two different general approaches to APBI:

1. Breast brachytherapy:  involves placing flexible hollow plastic tubes called catheters or a balloon directly into the lumpectomy cavity.  The catheters or the balloon are subsequently connected to a machine, which stores a small radioactive source (approximately the size of a grain of rice or a seed). With a special computer and robotic control, this small, radioactive seed is guided into the catheters or balloon near where the tumor was removed (in the lumpectomy cavity). The radioactive seed is temporarily left in place for several minutes (performed twice a day, at least six hours apart), based upon the treatment plan designed by your radiation oncologist. After the end of the five days, the catheters or balloon are removed very easily.

(Refer to Image 1: This SAVI device by Cianna Medical is a commonly utilized breast brachytherapy device for accelerated partial breast irradiation (APBI).  It is manufactured in different sizes to be customized to the shape and size of the lumpectomy cavity. Figure compliments of Cianna Medical, www.ciannamedical.com.)

2.         External beam radiation with 3D conformal techniques (3D-CRT): involves using the same radiation machine for treatment as would be utilized for “whole breast radiotherapy.”  The difference is in the smaller volume of the breast receiving radiation treatment, and in the radiation technique utilized to treat a smaller area.  This treatment is also designed to be done over a 5 day period (10 treatments, administered twice a day over 5 clinic days).

(Refer to Image 2:  Linear accelerators are machines that can precisely focus high energy x-ray beams.  These machines have been traditionally used to treat the whole breast, and more recently have been used for partial breast treatment with 3D conformal techniques (3D-CRT,  Figure compliments of Provenir Publishing.)

*Treatment with both approaches of APBI are typically given twice a day, five days a week (for each day, the treatments are spaced 6 hours apart for maximal safely to the normal breast tissues). Treatment can be completed in one week. The long-term results of these breast radiation techniques appear promising for many patients and continued research studies are ongoing. Talk with your cancer doctors for more information on these techniques and to learn if you would be a potential candidate.

Who are candidates for partial breast radiation?

                This is a treatment option that needs to be discussed in depth with your cancer treatment team.  Most established guidelines by national oncology groups include patients who:

1. Are older than age 45-50
2. Have small tumor sizes measuring less than 2-3 cm diameter
3. Have a lumpectomy with negative surgical margins and no lymph nodes involved
4. Do not have the pathology features of “extensive intraductal component” or “lymphovascular space invasion” (examined by a pathologist)
5. Have pathologic “ductal carcinoma” type of cancer [some national guidelines also include Ductal Carcinoma in Situ (DCIS)]

[Guideline information obtained from the American Brachytherapy Society (ABS), American Society of Breast Surgeons (ASBS), and the American Society for Radiation Oncology (ASTRO)]

How would partial breast radiation affect my daily routine?

For the “breast brachytherapy” form of treatment, the medical device remains in the breast during the entire course of treatment (1 week), so patients must refrain from showering during this time.  However, the device is carefully secured with gauze to minimize movement between treatments, and many women report minimal disruption to their daily lives. While some women choose to take time off from work and other activities, others report that they were able to carry on their normal schedules during the 5 days of treatment.

Following breast brachytherapy treatment, the most common side effects are temporary redness, bruising and discomfort. These do not occur in all patients and are typical side effects associated with any type of radiation therapy.  Most women find it possible to resume their normal daily activities immediately following treatment.  Of course, please be sure to follow your physician’s orders regarding follow-up appointments or additional treatments specific to your circumstances.

Christina Taylor knows that diet and nutrition are likely the last things on your mind during treatment for breast cancer.

But, as the 44-year-old survivor learned through self-study, proper nutrition can lessen the side effects of treatment and lead to a healthier way of life upon recovery.

“A lot of women aren’t aware that whatever you put into your body is what your body can give back to you,” says Taylor. “I had enough protein and calories to keep my energy level up. My goal was to keep my body fed and watered during chemotherapy, and I did remarkably well.”

Michelle Bratton, RD, CSO, a clinical nutritionist with the University of Arizona Cancer Center couldn’t agree more. “The key is to remain well-nourished and maintain weight during treatment,” says Bratton. “Some of the agents can cause nutritional-related side effects such as nausea, anorexia, weight-gain, constipation, and diarrhea. Weight gain is associated with poor prognosis overall and increases the recurrence of breast cancer.”

Because nutrition is so important, Bratton encourages women to ask their physician or nurse if a dietitian is on staff. If the answer is no, you can search by zip code to find a local dietitian who specializes in oncology nutrition.

So how do you go about nourishing your body when you feel unwell, when food often tastes bland from chemotherapy side effects, and when changes to diet, themselves, can cause stress?

“I don’t want to add additional stress during this time,” says Bratton. “So sometimes we work hard to tweak diet – increasing vegetables, decreasing red meat and sweets – after treatment.” Of course, you can never start too soon, she says. The following smaller steps, however, can provide relief during the difficult treatment period:

Small, Frequent Meals

For meals and snacks, pair lean proteins (chicken, turkey, fish, nut butters, beans) with a complex carbohydrate (oatmeal in the morning; whole grain bread at lunch; a baked sweet potato for dinner). Bratton also recommends healthy fats, including olive oil, avocados, or even flax seed oil on salads. While red meat is acceptable in moderation, its higher fat content makes it harder to digest, which can exacerbate nausea. Strive for five to six smaller meals per day during treatment.

The Water-Fiber Connection

Chemotherapy is toxic to malignant cells, but also to healthy cells. “By urinating often and in large volumes, you excrete chemotherapy metabolites,” says Bratton. “Dehydrated patients have increased metabolites in the blood and often experience more nausea and fatigue.” Because alcohol can cause dehydration, it also should be avoided during treatment. “Your liver is already busy detoxing from the chemo,” explains Bratton. “If you can give it one less thing to do, it’s a good idea.”

The body’s second natural detoxification process occurs through the gastrointestinal tract. And fiber is key to flushing the GI tract. While fiber supplements are good for treating constipation, they don’t offer the same vitamin and phytochemical nutrient benefits of fiber-rich whole grains, vegetables and fruits.

Organic vs. Conventional Produce

“No real studies link conventional produce and pesticide residue to cancer,” say Bratton. Eating more fruits and vegetables of any kind is good for the body. Organic, she says, certainly can’t hurt if it fits within the budget and is accessible. Bratton suggests consulting the Dirty Dozen list, highlighting the most contaminated produce. “If you buy organic, consider buying only these items to save money.” There also is no reason to avoid fresh vegetables and fruits during treatment, she says, contrary to past theories about illness and infection. Safe kitchen practices are, of course, paramount: rewashing fruits and vegetables and ensuring proper temperatures.

Supplements and Antioxidants

Little is known scientifically about vitamin and antioxidant supplement impacts on cancer, though Bratton says the nutrition community is excited about the role of vitamin D. “We need to be mindful of it, but I encourage women to know their level before supplementing.” Medical and radiation oncologists often prefer that patients avoid antioxidant supplements, citing concerns that they may interfere with the oxidation process of treatments. Antioxidants found in natural fruits are considered safe.

For more information about nutrition during and after treatment, Bratton recommends:

• The American Institute of Cancer Research website: includes studies about the diet-cancer connection and also offers recipes based on The New American Plate.
• The Essential Cancer Treatment Nutrition Guide and Cookbook: addresses symptoms to expect during various stages of treatment and how to navigate your way through dietary challenges, during and after treatment.
• A Dietitian’s Cancer Story: a book written by a registered dietitian who personally experienced two different breast cancer diagnoses and encourages women to assess the quality of their diets to make changes.
• Foods that Fight Cancer: this book analyzes the role of food chemistry in fighting and curing cancer with diet.

Taylor says that for her personally, the emphasis on healthy food choices during treatment – a type of breast cancer diet therapy she actively sought – helped to deemphasize the disease. “Preparing meals helped my mind wander into something different, rather than to sulk. I actually feel healthier today than I ever have.”

Taylor is so inspired by nutrition, she is currently earning health coaching certification. “I hope to teach the next generation to be more proactive with nutrition, rather than having to fight it on the back end.”

Caregivers are often the unsung heroes of the breast cancer battle, taking care of their loved one throughout treatment, picking up household responsibilities while their loved one is ill, and sometimes even taking on additional work to pay for medical costs.

How do you, as a caregiver, maintain the level of energy needed during this difficult time? How do you avoid burnout and remain hopeful under the new weight of stress and responsibility?

Ask for help.

It sounds simple, but caregivers often tell us they feel extreme guilt: guilt for asking someone else to assist with tasks they feel should be their own responsibility, guilt for taking time out for themselves.

“I think when people offer to help, they genuinely mean it,” says Cathy Schram, Director of Programs for the CareGiver Training Institute. A breast cancer survivor and caregiver to a quadriplegic daughter, she adds, “Most of us don’t take advantage of that offer because we don’t know what we need. It’s okay to say, ‘Right now, I don’t know how you can help, but if I could come back to you when I do, I would hope your offer would still be there.’”

With some of the “little things” off your plate, you have time to focus on staying healthy yourself, maintaining your spirit for her. “If the caregiver doesn’t get away and take breaks, the relationship with the person they are taking care of often suffers,” adds Schram. “It’s hard to be patient and kind 24/7. The person receiving care is coping with things and may be angry, lashing out. The caregiver needs to be able to get away from that.”

What can extended family, friends and neighbors do?

• Run errands
• Prepare meals
• Do your laundry
• Provide childcare
• Assist with yard work
• Shop for groceries and pick up medications
• Drive your loved one to medical appointments
• Give you a day off or a few hours alone, offering to be with your loved one in your absence

Other breast cancer caregiver support resources exist, beyond family and friends:

• The National Cancer Institute’s Caring for the Caregiver guide is full of tips about the importance of taking care of you.
• The Dana-Farber Cancer Institute has collected links to information about education and support programs for caregivers, as well as organizational tools to assist you, guides, discussion forums and insurance and financial insight.
• CancerCare offers a list of online, telephone, and face-to-face support groups for caregivers, as well as phone-in workshops and podcasts.
• ManageCancer lists more than a dozen available financial support offerings (as well as valuable resources to assist with medication, doctor schedules, communication, support, education, travel, housing and more).
• Johnson & Johnson’s Strength for Caring program provides stress-relief tips, health and wellness tips, and more – specifically for the caregiver.
• TBCS offers a host of services, including its In Home Care Program. Compassionate and properly trained caregivers can help alleviate many of the physical and emotional needs of both the family members and patients.

Using key Internet search words will reveal additional local resources: cancer caregiver support, cancer caregiving, financial support for cancer caregivers.

“A lot of caregivers will develop high blood pressure and other physical problems due to stress,” says Schram. “If you don’t take care of yourself, you can’t take care of her.” Talk with someone, she says. Vent. Take time away. Accept the help. Don’t be afraid to ask for it.

How can I fix this?

It’s often the first question a man will ask when he learns that a woman close to him – wife, significant other, daughter, aunt, mother, sister – has breast cancer. Even if he knows he has no control over the disease or its progression.

Sydney Justin, lead singer of The Miracles and solo artist “Steele,” knows the feeling all too well. When his wife Mari was diagnosed with Stage IV breast cancer in 2001, he admits to feeling devastated. “I was very sympathetic to her situation, but it felt there was nothing I could do.”

He learned over the months and years following Mari’s recovery, that he had plenty to offer. “We did things together,” he says of the time his wife underwent chemotherapy and radiation treatments. “We laughed a lot – went to the zoo, to comedy clubs, to dinner.”

That distraction, he says, was therapy in itself, helping her to achieve normalcy and – for a moment – to forget about cancer and set aside the stress. “Stress hurts more than people think; I believe it compounds the disease.” Reduced stress and positivity, he says, cannot be downplayed.

The Day-to-Day, the Physical, the Emotional

Aside from stepping in with routine activities – household chores, errands, childcare – men can also research treatment options, medical specialists, and alternative therapies, as well as attend scheduled medical, chemo and radiation appointments.

You are her partner, her coach, her cheerleader – encouraging physical activity and her emotional well-being.

“Mari actually ran several miles each day during the course of chemo and radiation,” says Justin, who rode along on his bike and actively participated in exercise routines. “I can’t stress the importance of getting her outdoors, helping her be as active as possible, enjoying the fresh air.” That exposure, he believes, feeds self-esteem and healing.

Words, however, may be the greatest tool to help combat self-esteem issues. “Tell her she’s beautiful. All women are beautiful but somehow think they’re not. Tell her you love her. Use words that are positive, words that will reassure her. It helps her morale, but I believe, even more, it aids in recovery.” And, says Justin, prayer and words of faith cannot be overlooked.

What else can you do, fathers, uncles, sons, husbands? “Give her flowers and gifts,” says Justin. “Make her feel important – special – that she has a reason to live. Don’t underestimate the power of words to heal.”

Love, says Justin and Mari, undoubtedly factors into recovery. “These brave women need constant reminders of their importance.” Justin’s recording of Can U Ever was his way of sharing the message that, “There is someone out there for you, to love you.”

On May 4, 2013, The Miracles will perform in Phoenix for a special concert that supports breast cancer awareness. Proceeds from ticket sales will fund The Breast Cancer Society’s Hope Supply Program, with the goal of creating warehouses across the nation, filled with much-needed supplies for families affected by breast cancer.

Carolyn Simmons,

My name is Carolyn Simmons; I’m a 6.5 year survivor who lives a God fearing life enjoying every day God has given me. I’m the last of 12 children and an active member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. I have lived a complete and blessed life with my twin brother and other siblings until tragedy struck and I was diagnosis with Breast cancer in Aug 2005.
Even though cancer had been so prevalent in my family this was not expected, I was in a good place in my life and not expecting anything so severe. I had been routinely getting annual mammograms and nothing ever showed up until this day. Since the finding was not conclusive it was recommended I have a biopsy. And true enough the biopsy showed it was cancer – this must have been the worst day of my life. I was at work and felt like I had no where to run however, I knew I needed to maintain my composure until I could get off work.
We hear people say all the time “I don’t know what I would do if that happens to me”. Believe me God gives you just what you need to get thru any encounter he allows us to face. I had my Lumpectomy in Sept 2005 and immediately following, I start chemotherapy – 6 rounds. I complete the chemo and started radiation in Jan of 2006 for 8 weeks. After the first round of chemo, in fact two weeks into my chemo treatment, I got up one morning showered and when I start combing my hair it start to just come out in patches. I remember my sister helping me cut my hair and clean my head. She was so encouraging and inspiring thru my entire ordeal. Another memorable moment was after my first treatment my twin brother got up early that next morning and prepares breakfast and brought it to my room. When he came thru my bedroom door and stood there with the food on the tray I got sick and ran pass him and knock the juice off the tray. He said I was just trying to help, he had no idea the smell of bacon and eggs made me nauseas. Praise be unto God today I’m still standing and cancer free. March 10, 2007 my twin (Carl Simmons) went home to be with the Lord and Feb 14, 2011 I lost my sister (Leola Simmons) to cancer. She had been fighting this battle for 20 years and experience some tough times. But I know she’s looking down from Heaven and cheering me on to the finish line.
Today I am six years cancer-free and feeling healthy. I still think about the possibility of finding cancer in my other breast, but I don’t allow that to worry or control my life. I TRUST GOD. My scars have healed and my hair is back and better than before. I get complements on my hair all the times and I tell them this is how God rewards you for being a faithful steward and trusting him to overcome cancer.
I believe I need to let other women know that it can happen to them even if they are in their 30s, 40s or 50s and have no family history of cancer. Help us in the fight to find a cure for this disease so our daughters, friends and sisters do not have to go through what I went through.

Breast cancer recovery isn’t simple. It doesn’t fit into a tidy box: the final radiation treatment, the last scheduled chemo appointment – or even the follow-up oncologist visits that point to resuming life “as you knew it.”

While those milestones are cause for jubilant celebration, survivors will tell you that life will never again be the same. However TBCS staffer and survivor Elizabeth Cluff will be the first to tell you that you can emerge from the experience a changed, but improved, version of yourself. Someone with greater fortitude, inner strength and a deep well of compassion.

“The emotional part will always be there,” she says. “It’s not all doom and gloom, but you do have the scars to show for it; you think about it every day … How do you forget being in the fight of your life?”

The short answer: You don’t. And you shouldn’t. Very real emotions come along with breast cancer recovery, and learning to nurture those emotions is key. But how do you heal emotional wounds? How do you avoid becoming one of the 25% of cancer survivors who will become clinically depressed?

“The key is emotional release,” says Karen Belyan, M.Ed., a training specialist who works with TBCS to provide stress management techniques to breast cancer patients. “It’s easy to get stuck in the emotional muck, to feel like you’re the only one who’s ever gone through this. That’s why support groups that can share your journey are so important to the emotional healing process.”

Belyan suggests that breast cancer patients and survivors start small with restorative self-esteem exercises. “I recommend short, seven-day goals,” she says. “In this way, you set yourself up for some kind of success.” Her program also advocates positive affirmations aimed at healing the psyche, a step she says is just as important as treating the disease itself. “To help change behaviors and belief systems, we must learn how to truly feel the affirmations,” she says. “You can learn to do this.”

Many breast cancer survivors have worked to heal emotional pain by seeking the guidance of organizations such as the National Coalition for Cancer Survivorship and CancerCare. Survivors also have turned to yoga, meditation, horse and art therapy programs, as well as to self-help books and websites penned by other survivors and medical professionals.

Emotional healing happens gradually, and while it requires the evaluation of difficult issues, it is an integral step to your ultimate healing.

When TBCS staffer Elizabeth Cluff was 37, the last thing she expected was a breast cancer diagnosis. With a one-, three- and six-year old, her days were brimming with the challenges – and joys – associated with raising energetic kids. Despite the sudden diagnosis and difficulties it presented, Elizabeth received an outpouring of assistance from a key group of likely players, but also many unlikely players: her support system.

Elizabeth shares how many within her support system jumped in to help ease her burdens. “A friend organized my calendar with doctor’s appointments. Other times friends would take the kids and, at night, meals would be prepared by others. Not everyone has that, I know.” But, she says, resources are available. She warns, “You will be tired, but you have to be aggressive, educate yourself, make phone calls and ask questions. Don’t be afraid to assemble your support group.”

Below, Elizabeth shares lessons learned from her personal experience.

Finding Your Support System

1. Your oncologist is a key resource. Ask questions about local aid: Do you know of any community support groups or meal delivery programs? Where can I get a wig? Who can get me to appointments? Is financial assistance available? If your oncologist works alone, consider searching the websites of local oncologist groups, whose pooled online and community resources are more robust.
2. National Organizations offer a range of support services. Consider The Breast Cancer Society (us), American Cancer Society, CancerCare, Susan G. Komen for the Cure. And consider local organizations within your home state. The organization Breast Friends lists local support resources by state.
3. Internet Searches. Start your search with local hospitals (cancer support programs are often run through a hospital’s community outreach or community education department). Key word searches include breast cancer assistance, breast cancer funding, breast cancer support groups (name of city), cancer support organizations (name of city), wig program.
4. Social Media. You may feel uncomfortable attending face-to-face support groups, and that’s okay. “My other support group was my computer at night,” says Elizabeth, who sought the blogs of breast cancer patients. “My saving grace was reading about their experiences. I needed their positivity.” Even Facebook provided a support connection, she says. “My friends’ comments made me feel heroic, helped me keep going.” The Breast Cancer Society offers a positive Facebook experience, as well as a private online community for breast cancer fighters and supporters.
5. Faith-based programs. “If you do have faith,” says Elizabeth, “you need to feel comfortable going back to it – even if it’s been a while. Don’t feel guilty about joining a church or thinking ‘I’m doing this because I’m sick.’ Believers of faith want to step up and help.”
6. Family.  They want to help, but often, they are not sure what to do. Offer them direction based on articles from the Internet research you conduct (above) and by being honest with them about your needs.

“No one tells you about all the pain meds, running straight from surgery to your next appointment…or the days blurring together. Also, the effects of chemo can affect your decision-making abilities. You may be too sick to comprehend all of the things going on around you. This is where a support system is critical. Your support system may not be your family, sister or spouse. It might be the friend of a friend who calls you, who ‘gets it.’” Don’t be afraid to reach out. Help is available.

Bill Seaver, Family History of Cancer

I have never had cancer myself, but my sister, brother, uncle, and sister-in-law all had some kind of Cancer! Sadly, 3 out of 4 did not make it! I have witnessed three of them suffer through it. I can’t even begin to imagine the pain and suffering they went through! Just hoping that my small donation will help in some way.

MESA, AZ – The Breast Cancer Society today announced the graduation of Farah Buck, a breast cancer survivor who received a scholarship through the charity’s Empower One Scholarship Fund to complete her education. The Breast Cancer Society is one of the only national breast cancer charities in the Unites States with a primary focus on providing direct help and assistance to those suffering from breast cancer.

“The Breast Cancer Society believes in Farah, and the millions of breast cancer fighters like her. They inspire us with exceptional life stories and their possession of incredible strength, and have much to offer to our communities in the way of compassionate experience and resolve,” said James Reynolds, II, President/CEO of The Breast Cancer Society. “Farah highlights one of the most important things that we at The Breast Cancer Society do – help support patients and their families, many of whom have sold everything they own to pay for cancer treatments. We will continue to do everything we can to support the patients and families struggling under financial burden while fighting cancer.”

Through the Empower One Scholarship Fund, The Breast Cancer Society provides funding for the ongoing educational development of breast cancer survivors. The purpose of the program is to Empower, Educate and offer Hope by allowing them to regain and improve their financial stability.

A few months after giving birth to her sixth child, Farah was diagnosed with breast cancer. As she and her husband braced to battle the disease, her dream of earning a nursing degree was put on hold. After surgery, Farah spent several months undergoing chemotherapy and radiation as her surgeon was unable to get clear margins.

As the adoptive mother of children from Haiti and Southern Arkansas, as well as having natural children of her own, Farah’s decision to pursue a nursing degree stemmed from her desire to serve as a caregiver. Once in recovery, she was determined to fulfill her dream. In August 2012, The Breast Cancer Society offered Farah a chance to make her dreams a reality by giving her an educational grant to finish her degree.

“I went back to nursing school three months after my last radiation treatment. Although it was an enormous challenge, especially in the first year following treatment, I have been working toward my goal of graduating with a Bachelor of Science in Nursing,” Farah explained in her request for assistance.

On Saturday, December 15, 2012, Farah triumphantly graduated cum laude from the University of Arkansas, Eleanor Mann School of Nursing with her Bachelor of Science in Nursing.

“My graduation would not have been possible without support through the scholarship from The Breast Cancer Society.  It was a tough semester driving two hours to Tulsa and flying home to Houston every week, but I was determined! Words cannot express the gratitude I feel for the scholarship I received,” said Farah, who hopes to pursue a career in breast oncology. “Each woman has a heart and spirit that will also need healing after cancer.”

The Breast Cancer Society’s guiding mission is to provide relief to those who suffer from the effects of breast cancer now, as well as to work cooperatively with and give support to other personnel, individuals and organizations that share in the goal of helping cancer patients, the critically ill, and the impoverished. Work is done through public education, direct cash assistance, research funding through grants, financial aid assistance including academic scholarships, in-home care, and by providing medical supplies, care-giving products, and referral services.

For more information on the Empower One Scholarship Fund, please visit: http://www.breastcancersociety.org/programs/empower-one-scholarship-fund/.

Veronica Zamora, Team Veronica

My name is Veronica, I am 32 years old and this past April I was diagnosed with Stage 2b breast cancer. My family is my everything, they are my reason to get up everyday and fight this battle everyday! I refuse to let cancer win! This October all my church and family set a day to honor breast cancer awareness and honored my family not only because I am battling breast cancer but because throughout this whole ordeal, my husband, our kids, and myself keep going strong! I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!!! Team Veronica

Angel McIlwain, Breast Cancer Patient

Last year I was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer. I underwent chemo, surgery, and radiation. I still take a monthly treatment for the cancer in my spine. For the first year in treatment, The Breast Cancer Society sent a monthly check to help with our many expenses. It meant the world to us. Sometimes I used it for medicine and sometimes for groceries. I am forever grateful to the generous donors for making my journey a little easier.

The Breast Cancer Society, Inc. was truly fortunate to share in a magical experience with breast cancer patients, survivors and family members. In March, 2011 one of the organizations monthly support groups took a trip to California. This venture was in hopes to create a sisterhood, while enjoying beach outings, window shopping and delicious meals.

The highlight of this trips was an opportunity to attend the filming of “The Price is Right” show hosted by Drew Carey. The excitement only increased as one of our group members won the entire showcase, totally over $46,000!

This was a moment that will not soon be forgotten in the hearts of so many women. We are blessed to be a part of such a worthy cause. We would like to thank all of the supporters who made such a trip possible. It truly touched the lives of those who need support and friendship as they continue their battle with breast cancer.

The Breast Cancer Society announced today that it has awarded a $6,000 award to Gabryelle Hilt, 19, from Canaan, NY, which will allow her to remain in school at Southern New Hampshire University this Fall. The Breast Cancer Society is one of the only national breast cancer charities in the Unites States with a primary focus on providing direct help and assistance to those suffering from breast cancer. Its guiding mission is to provide relief to those who suffer from the effects of breast cancer now, as well as to work cooperatively with and give support to other personnel, individuals and organizations that share in the goal of helping cancer patients, the critically ill, and the impoverished. Work is done through public education, direct cash assistance, research funding through grants, financial aid assistance including academic scholarships, in-home care, and by providing medical supplies, care-giving products, and referral services.

“The Breast Cancer Society believes in Gabby, and the millions of children of breast cancer fighters like her. They inspire us with exceptional life stories and their possession of incredible strength, and have much to offer to our communities in the way of compassionate experience and resolve,” said James Reynolds, II, President/CEO of The Breast Cancer Society. “Gabby highlights one of the most important, and often overlooked, things that we at The Breast Cancer Society do – help support patient’s families, many of whom have sold everything they own to pay for cancer treatments. The aftermath of breast cancer is much more than physical. We will continue to do everything we can to support the patients and families struggling under financial burden while fighting cancer.”

Many times, breast cancer affects a family’s financial ability to provide further education for their children. With determination to confront the effects of breast cancer, The Breast Cancer Society created the Hope Scholarship Fund for the ongoing educational development of children of parents who are struggling or have lost their fight with cancer. The purpose of the fund is to Empower, Educate and offer Hope through providing educational funding for the surviving children of breast cancer patients.

In May of 2012, Gabby’s mother, Sondra Hilt, was diagnosed with breast cancer. Sondra is a single mother, raising three exceling children with promising futures. Prior to her diagnosis, she worked as a nurse striving to ensure that all three of her children would receive the education they need to be successful in their own lives.

“Our lives just crumbled with mom’s diagnosis,” Gabby recalls. “After research, we realized the dreaded word Cancer does not equal death.” Gabby and her siblings rallied around their mother. They each sought out and obtained work in addition to attending school. Together, they supported their mother through a fight that included a double mastectomy. Thankfully, today Gabby’s mother, Sondra, is cancer free and doing well.

But like many other families faced with similar circumstances, the family’s finances were dominated with treatments, medicines and doctor visits.  With her mortgage going unpaid, Gabby’s mother took the last of the family funds and made a partial payment to Southern New Hampshire University for Gabby’s registration. Gabby started school on time, determined to honor her mother’s wishes. With a remaining balance of $6,000, to remain in school, Gabby reached out to The Breast Cancer Society for help.

The Breast Cancer Society’s scholarship review committee was impressed with the Hilt family and the love and resilience they have shown. Gabby’s personal story and many philanthropic achievements made her an exceptional candidate for the organization’s scholarship program.

Sonya Black, breast cancer

I was just diagnosed 2 weeks ago. 5 days ago I had a mastectomy, lymph nodes removed, and a portacath inserted for chemo. I am 45 and married with 3 beautiful children. I have stage 3 cancer. I am confident I can win this battle. I am looking for resources near Jacksonville NC….and lots of prayers.

Thank you,
Sonya

Flo Betteridge, Hard this time of year

My Mom will be gone 6 yrs oct 2012, died from breast cancer. It is fast moving. Please get checked!

I had the Brca 1 & 2 test. I do not have to gene but I still go every year to make sure.

Ton Savon, a leading manufacturer of private label bath and beauty products direct from Provence, France www.tonsavon.com is thrilled to announce its partnership with The Breast Cancer Society throughout October. The company is recognized for its’ focus on natural and organic ingredients, and creating luxurious formulations for the face, body, hair, and home. From now through October 31, 2012 each purchase of Savon et Cie gift set; Wild Rose and Acai Berry soaps adorned with pink labels and a beautiful ribbon, $10; Ton Savon will donate soaps to The Breast Cancer Society’s Hope Supply Program.

This program provides daily household items such as bedding, hygiene products, personal care items along with clothing and more to families affected by breast cancer. For those who spend countless dollars on medical costs being able to “shop” in these warehouses and find high end products for free is a dream come true.

Ton Savon makes customers feel beautiful by providing the best product on the market while respecting the environment and one’s well-being, all so important for lives touched by breast cancer; be it a mother fighting for her life or a child helping to support a mother or grandmother going through treatments, TBCS provides continuous support for these families and encourages these women to see their inner beauty each and every day.

“Specializing in products free of SLS, BHT, parabens, and phalates, our philosophy and pure ingredients were a perfect match for this cause and anyone choosing to lead a healthy lifestyle,” explained Dana DeVorzon co-owner of Ton Savon.

Kristina Hixson, TBCS Director of Operations is so excited for the women they serve to receive such a generous gift. “TBCS  is so thankful for the opportunity to receive goods through Ton Savon! The soaps received will be distributed to breast cancer fighters and their families.” Hixson continues her statement by mentioning the emotional encouragement such donations give to these women in their time of need. “Please know that Ton Savon has offered more than goods and supplies for the patients we serve. In immeasurable ways, they have offered them hope!”

While research and education are both vital, and also funded by The Breast Cancer Society, Inc. there are many thousands of fighters of breast cancer each year who need not only information and the hope for an eventual cure, but require direct assistance today in order for them and their families to meet the challenges brought on by this disease. TBCS maintains an extensive program for procuring medicines, care items, and medical supplies. These much-needed commodities acquired are offered to women who are battling breast cancer today.

Donating close to $100,000 in soap products to charitable organizations Ton Savon believes in taking care of the environment and society by setting an example in the health and beauty industry in providing safe, clean products free of harsh chemicals and preservatives and giving to those in need. Ton Savon continues to be a leader in private label bath products direct from France. www.tonsavon.com

DOROTHY MCDOUGAL, BREAST CANCER SURVIVOR

HELLO! I WAS DIAGNOSIS WITH STAGE 2 DUCTAL CARCINOMA IN MY RIGHT BREAST. I WENT THROUGH 4 CYCLES OF CHEMO NO RADIATION. TO ALL THE LADIES OUT THERE MAKE SURE YOU HAVE YOUR MAMMOGRAMS EVERY YEAR. EARLY DETECTIONS SAVES LIVES. TODAY I’M A 4YR SURVIVOR…. TO GOD BE THE GLORY!! MY MISSION IS TO TELL MY STORY AND BE ANANGEL TO SOMEONE ELSE. WHEN YOU GIVE BACK, IT JUST MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD. BE BLESSED!

“Being a nursing student, a wife and mother of six children, and a cancer patient and survivor has not been easy.” Farah admits as she evaluates her decision to return to school. “I am still taking Femara, and unfortunately the side effects have been hard to manage. However, I am determined to beat breast cancer and will forge ahead with life even while taking a drug that tries to slow me down….It will be an enormous blessing to me and my family if the Breast Cancer Society would help fund my last semester of nursing school”.

Farah was breastfeeding her youngest child when she noticed a small tubular mass in her left breast in March of 2010. She “shrugged it off” as being normal for a breastfeeding mother. She was confident that she could not be diagnosed with breast cancer because she did not have any family history of the disease. In her mind, none of the risk factors were evident as she was young, healthy and maintained a good weight. To Farah, a breast cancer diagnosis would not make sense. Yet, deep inside she sensed that something was not right. Listening to her inner voice, she visited her doctor.

At first, Farah’s doctor felt that she did not have cancer. A biopsy later showed that she did. As she entered into surgery, she was confident that her only treatment would be 5 years of Tamoxifen. The findings of that surgery were very different from what she had been expecting. “When I awoke from surgery, I was told I had one positive sentinel node. Later I would learn I also had a large positive intramammary node, multi focal DCIS, and a small highly aggressive Grade III tumor that was ER positive, HER 2 negative. Those earlier feelings of dread were providential; there was something gravely wrong with me although I felt healthy with nothing more than a small tubular fibroadenoma to show for it.” Farah spent several months undergoing chemotherapy and radiation as the surgeon was unable to get clear margins.

Farah’s family history is unique and commendable. Her father is a family practice doctor from Afghanistan and her Aunt was the first woman to graduate from medical school in Kabul, Afghanistan in the 1960’s. Her mother was a classically trained musician. Following after her mother’s footsteps, Farah excelled in music. She earned her Bachelor’s degree from the University of Georgia with a major in piano performance in 1997.

Once married, Farah and her husband adopted children from Haiti and Southern Arkansas, as well as having natural children of their own. A major factor in her decision to pursue a nursing degree is based on her children and the desire to be able to provide for them.

“I went back to nursing school in March 2011, three months after my last radiation treatment. Although it has been an enormous challenge, especially in the first year following treatment, I have been working toward my goal of graduating with a Bachelor of Science in Nursing since that time”. Farah has every intention of taking her life’s experience and using it to make a difference in her chosen profession. “I see myself as a specialist nurse in breast oncology with a mission to help young women faced with this disease. I will do this through collaboration with other health professionals and treating women holistically. Each woman has a heart and spirit that also need healing after cancer”.

In August of 2012, The Breast Cancer Society offered Farah a chance to make her dreams a reality by giving her an educational grant to finish her degree. With a nursing degree, she will have an inimitable opportunity to help other women faced with breast cancer. “TBCS believes in Farah, as well as the millions of survivors living in America today. Breast cancer fighters inspire us with exceptional life stories and their possession of incredible strength.  They have much to offer to our communities” says Kristina Hixson, TBCS Director of Operations. “TBCS is honored to provide educational grants to breast cancer survivors.  The world needs their courage and inner determination to survive.  These women have the ability to change lives through sharing their own.”

The Empower One Scholarship Fund is a program offered by the organization to breast cancer survivors. The purpose of the fund is to Empower, Educate and offer Hope through providing educational funding for breast cancer survivors, allowing them to regain and improve financial stability and self-reliance. Obtaining a degree can secure one’s future,  increase earning capacity, or open doors to new opportunities.  The Breast Cancer Society, Inc. is determined to improve a breast cancer fighter’s ability to provide for themselves and their families.

LOS ANGELES, CA – During the Month of October, Apricot Lane Boutiques across the country (www.apricotlaneusa.com) will be featuring month long Pink Parties in honor of Breast Cancer Awareness Month! Apricot Lane is excited to announce this partnership with The Breast Cancer Society (TBCS).

Throughout the month of October, customers who donate $1 to TBCS will receive a $5 coupon to spend at Apricot Lane. Give $1 get $5 – all for a great cause! Certain store locations will feature a line of pink Good Work(s) Make a Difference bracelets and Good Work(s) will  donate 50% of net profits back to TBCS as well. The leather wrap bracelets will come in metallic pink with crystals ($30) and feature pink ribbon charms.  Good Work(s) bracelets are a favorite among celebrities and the leading accessory found at Apricot Lane. Stores will feature additional brands to support the month long initiative and products will vary according to store locations.

Apricot Lane Boutiques will also throw individual, in store Pink Parties in October and customers can visit the Facebook pages of their store location to find out the dates of these events. To support the pink theme, stores will feature  “goodie” bars with pink cookies, candies and drinks, pretty pink make-up tips and, prizes.  A percentage of the revenue generated at these Pink Parties will be donated back to The Breast Cancer Society.

“If we all unite on the same front we can do our part to help fight this disease and lend support to those affected,” explained Ken Petersen, CEO of Apricot Lane Boutique. “Since both mothers and daughters in their 20’s to 40’s shop at Apricot Lane, the same demographic as that of The Breast Cancer Society, it was important to us to take our commitment a step further by supporting our customers and this cause”

Apricot Lane, Good Work(s) and The Breast Cancer Society understand the importance of giving back to those who are in need and have come together to provide assistance to women and their families who are fighting breast cancer. All monies raised through the October campaign will go to further The Breast Cancer Society programs that help women directly with financial assistance, medical supplies and material aid.

Apricot Lane is part of the popular Country Visions, Inc. franchise, ranked consistently by Entrepreneur Magazine on their Top Franchise list.  Each boutique is individually owned and operated and specializes in unique, one-of-a-kind items along with brand names known for their quality and fashionable style trends. With over seventy stores in thirty three states, the franchise aims to be recognized as a valuable partner with The Breast Cancer Society where together they are determined to provide both a positive and influential impact for providing help, giving hope and improving survival in the lives of women battling breast cancer everywhere.

andrew webb, son

My mother was a breast cancer survivor. She lost the battle with cancer at 68 years old in 2011. 21 YEAR SURVIVOR. I wish I could give this foundation money, but am not working at this time. With my love, Andy.

Jon C Young, Mr.

My mother was a survivor. She had suffered from a radical and simple mastectomies. She spent 20 years going to hospitals on-call for the cancer “Reach to Recovery” program. She talked with patients who were either going to have the surgery or had just had it. She passed away 40 years after her surgeries from complications from a stroke.

I have all my details in place for Monday’s surgery, with my caretaker for pickup and a maximum for 3 weeks of care, which might be shortenened given a faster recovery.  I was called immediately and was given my assessment within one day of my doctor’s office faxing you my details. You have no idea how absolutely grateful I am for this new program your ogranization has in place!  I thank you all from the bottom of my heart for the help I will receive.  These 10 months of many surgeries have been grueling but to know that for this portion, there is care available to me is so relieving, beyond relief!  I also checked the educational and finance assistance programs.  Already heard back from Kristina with an application.  I am so impressed and will be referring your programs to other breast cancer patients I come to meet in the near future. Many, many thanks. Melody

Elizabeth,

I’m extremely grateful for all The Breast Cancer Society does for women facing the arduous journey associated with breast cancer. Several of my patients have benefited from your amazing services.

Mother’s Day Gift of Memories

This Mother’s Day three organizations came together to give breast cancer patients the gift of photographic memories. The Breast Cancer Society, Face in the Mirror and Erik Merkow Photography spent the day pampering women for this marvelous holiday.  Collectively, we honored these gracious women for all they have done and all they continue to do to inspire and encourage each one of us.

Face in the Mirror had volunteer hair stylists and make-up artists on hand to give these special ladies a stylish make-over, while Erik Merkow treated them to an extraordinary private photo shoot.

Each of these beautiful breast cancer fighters enjoyed a complimentary lunch.  Activities where provided for children so mom could be “spoiled” for a change.

An 8 x 10 photograph, as well as all the digital files were provided to each lady as a gift.

Elizabeth Soto, Breast Cancer Fighter

I just wanted to let you know how much I appriciate your monthly financial assistance. It makes a difference when fighting this disease. God Bless you all!! Thank you!!

One of the greatest concerns of mothers who develop breast cancer is regarding the future well-being of their children in such a time of uncertainty. Many times breast cancer affects a family’s financial ability to provide further education for their children. With determination to confront the effects of breast cancer, the Hope Scholarship Fund has been created for the ongoing educational development of their children.

On Friday April 27, 2012 in the beautiful city of Portland, OR, The Breast Cancer Society and Good Works came together to award scholarships to two of the children in the Rhonda Mieldon family. Rhonda heart wrenchingly lost her battle to the disease on the morning of February 10, 2010. Tiara and Shayla Loville (Rhonda’s eldest daughters) are the first recipients of The Hope Scholarship Fund.

The Hope Scholarship Fund is a new program offered by The Breast Cancer Society, Inc. awarding educational scholarships to the children of breast cancer fighters. Good Works has committed to partner with The Breast Cancer Society, Inc. to help raise funds for this innovative program.

Breast cancer is difficult physically, emotionally and financially.  Often, patients will drain all of their resources to pay for the treatments they need to stay alive.  This scholarship program will assist breast cancer patients college age children to gain a degree or professional certification.  This program is designed to empower the survivor by promoting professional skills, capabilities, and earning capacity.

Assisting with education is one way we can effectively impact the adverse effects of breast cancer.  The purpose of the Hope Scholarship Fund is to Empower, Educate, and offer Hope.

With the much needed support from Good Works, The Breast Cancer Society is honored to offer both of these young women scholarships to further their educations.  This opportunity is powerful and meaningful.  It will help shape the lives of these young women and positively impact this family as they strive to gain a new normal.

Terri is a breast cancer survivor who is courageously battling this disease.  Her one wish was that she would have a private oasis to find peace and solitude in her back yard.

Terri has worked for years as a Pediatric Intensive Care Unit Nurse at Phoenix Children’s Hospital and is currently working at Cardin Children’s Hospital.  She has given so much, too so many.  Her brother in law, Matt Almeida, wanted desperately to do something for this woman in her time of need, as she has given so much of herself.  Matt, along with the help of Terri’s husband and numerous businesses around the valley were able to transfer her yard.

Terri’s family organized an entire remodeling of her yard with huge sponsorships from around the valley.  The best part….Terri had no idea!  Her husband took her on a get a way and they returned to a surprise reveal.  What was once a pile of dirt, has been transformed into the vision Terri has always dreamed of. The Breast Cancer Society is proud to be part of such a special effort.

Business owners from around the valley generously donated goods and man power to make this happen.  Three days were dedicated to this cause.  Volunteers showed up with big hearts and a willingness to get a little dirty.  The Gilbert Fire Department was at the reveal wearing pink ribbons and giving pink fire hats away to help raise awareness.

A difference was made in Terri’s life and the life of all those who participated.  We are honored, along with all of those who gave so much of their time and energy to give this gift to Terri.

Sponsored By:

The Breast Cancer Society, Inc, The Home Depot, Chapman Automotive, Gilbert Fire Department, All Rock Supply, West Coast Turf, Cooling Arizona, Coronado Landscape and Design, Bear Masonry, Belgard, Blooming Desert, V & P Nurseries, Marvel, Ron’s Masonry, War Eagle Plumbing, Rumore Landscape, Tree Care Plus, Inc., Arizona Premiere Carpet Care, BraydensBuddy.com

October is breast cancer awareness month, and as such thousands of survivors, breast cancer fighters, family members, volunteers, supporters and advocates participate in the shared demand, we want a cure!  We come together with a common bond….supporting her, in hopes of empowering even one of our sisters.

The Breast Cancer Society is proud to announce their first annual walk was a success.  What made this walk unique from other awareness races?  All proceeds went to breast cancer patients and their families.  Research and education are vital for the eventual eradication of breast cancer, however we have the sacred responsibility of helping those who are in the middle of battling this disease today.

Those who supported this event assisted in providing breast cancer patients medical aid, treatment medications, hygiene products, bedding, financial assistance, in home care after surgery and support groups for emotional recovery.

Thank you all for a successful event.  We will see you in Septmeber 22, 2012 at The Phoenix Zoo!

The Breast Cancer Society, Inc was a proud sponsor of Arthur Hitchcock and his efforts to raise awareness and education on breast cancer issues.  After losing his mother to breast cancer, he vowed to make a statement on how serious this disease is and remind the world, we want a cure.

Starting his journey in May 2011, Arthur walked every step with hopes to draw attention to the reality that breast cancer is still taking lives.  He passed out educational materials, pink bracelets and other small reminders to everyone he came into contact with.  He truly made a difference and is an inspiration to us all.

We believe it is not by accident that Arthur took his first step inside of Maine in October, 2011.  October is the international month recognized for breast cancer awareness and education.  It was also the one year anniversary of the passing of his mother.

Thank you Arthur.  This movement has touched us all.  Your perseverance and sacrifice is a symbol of hope that so many breast cancer patients appreciate.

Susan A. Loren, mother, wife, daughter, teacher, recovering

Thank you Breast Cancer Society for your literature and grant to help me understand and pay for medications needed throughout my breast cancer treatment.

Ruth Cahn, Breast Cancer Survivor

Thank you for sending me money to cover some of my bills every month. I am on disability and would not have enough without your help.

Teri, Breast Cancer Patient

Lynn Shenefield, Breast Cancer in treatment

When the economy took a plunge, my income fell over 70%. I often skipped meals or ate cereal (many times without milk). The generous benefits from The Breast Cancer Society kept the electric and water on. In June, my lung collapsed and the hospital bills were coming in fast and furious. Uninsured, I did not know how I was going to survive. The monthly check from TBCS gave me hope and helped me keep the wolf from the door. I am blessed to have patient doctors and a caring hospital financial counselor.

Without the help of The Breast Cancer Society I would certainly be far worse off. Everyone has been so kind and supportive. I give thanks to God for such a caring and generous organization.

Dana, Breast Cancer Patient

March 6, 2008

To Whom it May Concern:

I just would like to express my sincerely appreciation for the last two checks I have received from The Breast Cancer Society over the past two weeks. Although “my story” may be hard to believe it is all true. My husband of 13 years left me and my three children in late April of 2007 and filed for divorce three weeks later. This all came soon after our oldest son, Grant was diagnosed with autism.

I have struggled emotionally and financially over the past year of 2007 while dealing with my divorce. I was within two to three weeks to coming to a “global resolution” and finalizing my divorce when on Dec. 16, 2007 I found a lump I my left breast. I went to the doctor the following day, and it was concluded that it was in fact a mass. By the end of the same week, I was informed by the ultra-sound doctor that it was most likely cancer. My mother had breast cancer 5 years before, so I knew what I was going to have to endure to fight breast cancer. Christmas was difficult to get through being that it was the first year that my husband would not be present for the kids and knowing that I would within days be officially diagnosed with breast cancer. On Dec. 28, I had the biopsy and they oncology surgeon, found not only one but two lumps… On Jan 16, I had a single mastectomy and had 23 of my lymph nodes removed. Seventeen of my 23 lymph nodes tested positive for cancer. I was diagnosed with invasive ductile breast cancer.

At the age of 37, single mother of three (age 8, 4, and 2yrs) I knew I had my hands full and
would be relying on the strength of my faith, friends and family to help me and my kids. I had my first chemotherapy treatment on Jan 28 and five days later I was informed by my divorce attorney that my “soon to be ex-husband” had voluntarily “quit” his job. My financial security was immediately put at risk and my health insurance was suddenly put on a COBRA status. As expected since February 1, 2008 my children and I have not received any support payments and I have paid my COBRA insurance payment providing health care insurance for me and the kids by relying on the kindness of others and organizations such as yours. (In fact, right now…your non-profit agency is the only one who has responded to my need and for that I am thankful).

I will be forever indebted to your society and look forward to the day when I can “pay it forward” to someone else in need. I hope that “my story” may help others find strength should they find themselves in a similar situation. For that reason alone, feel free to share “my story”. My fight with breast cancer is far from over.. I will be having my 3 of 8 rounds of chemo on Monday, followed by radiation, reconstructive surgeries etc.

Thank you again on behalf of myself and children

Dana Bell

Mother of Grant (age
Helena (age 4)
Everett (age 2 on April 12)
…)
Breast Cancer Fighter since 12/28/07

Paulette, Stage four breast cancer still in treatment

The Breast Cancer Society came into my life at a time when life was very dark for me and my son. In life, I never knew that it was possible to have the kind of kindness shown to me by perfect strangers. They have made it possible for me and my son to sustain a roof over our heads and have some food to eat after coming out of a shelter. I will be forever grateful to the staff at this facility. May the Lord continue to bless them. If I should ever be blessed with wealth this society will be the first organization that I would make a substantial donation too, that they may continue to help others as they have done for me. Thank you once again and may God bless you always.

Judi, Breast Cancer Patient

Dear Breast Cancer Society,

Thank you so much for the financial assistance you have provided me during this difficult time in my life. The monthly checks I receive have really helped me with the monthly bills. Your generous support for those of us battling breast cancer is truly wonderful and most appreciated.

Mary, Breast Cancer Patient

I can’t thank you enough for the financial help being extended to me. No amount of words could convey my gratitude. I don’t know how I would survive without such assistance. I appreciate it so much.

Lorraine, Breast Cancer Survivor

What a wonderful journey it has been since I discovered The Hope Supply Program ! The staff is compassionate and always greet you with a warm smile. I am grateful for the financial assistance and the benefit of choosing items every month which is an enormous help. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You !!!

Sandra Wade, Stage 4 Inflammatory Breast Cancer

I was desperate for financial assistance in purchasing essential equipment for my chronic stage 2 lymphedema. I searched locally and nationally for help for months with no success. I was depressed, discouraged and exhausted. I made one call late on a Friday to the Breast Cancer Society. A extremely nice woman answered, I told her I needed financial help in paying off a balance for a badly needed piece of equipment. The manufacturer had donated the machine (The Flexitouch lymphedema pump), but I had to pay for the personal attachments that wrap the leg, chest and left arm. This cost was almost $1,000 which I did not have. I obtained aid from the Avon Foundation and $100 from Cancer Care. When I explained my situation, this wonderful lady went to Executive Director, Mr. Reyonolds, II. , he approved aid to fulfill the balance of my purchase. Four weeks later I received my machine delivered to my door. I know for a fact that the generosity in providing assistance for this machine helped keep me out of the hospital. I’ve heard people in my situation have stayed up to 3 and 4 months in the hospital getting their lymphedema under control. THE BREAST CANCER SOCIETY saved me from incredible long term pain, suffering and the huge expense of a prolonged hospital stay. I cannot thank the Breast Cancer Society enough. I have lost everything I’ve ever worked for in 45 years of work history. I’ve lost all savings, 401-k, I’ve even used an advanced death benefit from my life insurance company. I’m not even sure if I have enough for a funeral or cremation. The people at the Breast Cancer Society cannot possibly know just how much I appreciate all that that have done for me. I am single and live alone. I live on disability and my account is overdrawn all the time from unexpected expenses. I live in a constant state of fear of not having enough money to live on month to month. Mr. Reynolds and the other people at The Breast Cancer Society, in my opinion, are heroes. I thank God for these people and keep them in my prayers that their lives be blessed. Sandra

Cat McCue, Cat McCue

http://breastcancersurvivors-shareyourstory.blogspot.com/
Five years ago on May 11, 2005 I had surgery to remove the breast cancer. I decided to take the extreme route which was to totally remove both breast. All I knew is that I did not want to see it again. Get it out of me…..NOW, is how I felt. They found out that the cancer did not spread to my lymph nodes which was really good news.

Shortly after that, in June 2005, I began my first of what was to be four chemotherapy treatments. Those were tough. The first one wasn’t so bad and I remember thinking, well if this is it then this won’t be so bad. Oh I was in for a rude awakening!

Then after the 2nd treatment my hair began to fall out so I took matters into my own hands and went and had my head shaved. That was dramatic. We women love our hair and to loose it let alone choose to shave it off, well that was not easy. I can’t tell you how many times prior to that, I had stood in the mirror on a bad hair morning and said these very same words…”Oh if I could only shave this stuff and start over!!!” Well I got my chance didn’t I?

After the 3rd treatment is when I began to feel very bad. My white blood count went way down and I ran fevers and just ached from head to toe. The area where they placed my port became infected. I was feeling just awful. Along with feeling just lousy I also was really struggling to keep my emotional strength from falling apart. I remember one evening I went to take a shower. Before stepping into the shower I caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror. What I saw just about brought me to my knees. Staring back at me was this person with no hair on it’s head. I mean no eyebrows and it’s skin was pasty. There were two huge scares on it’s chest where breast use to be. On each side of it’s rib cage were two holes where the drains use to be. Yes I use the word, “it”, because to this day it is hard for me to believe that that was me. I just stood there and cried. That was one of the only times I really let myself cry? The next day I changed my routine and took a shower in the morning, instead of at night when I wasn’t so tired from dealing with all the stuff that I was dealing with. Just that changed helped out a lot.

It took all the strength I had in me to go to my last treatment. I dreaded it so bad…but when the treatment was complete the nurses had a little graduation party for me and off I went.

About a week after my last treatment I was placed in the hospital because I development a very bad infection from the port and had to have it removed. That was how I spent my 45th birthday.
I had several reconstruction surgeries. Completed them without much problems. My hair grew back slowly. I thought it took forever to grow back in. Now it’s half way down my back. I decided to let it grow as long as I could even though some might think I’m too old for long hair. They just don’t understand what it is like to have no hair and then how long it takes to grow back in.

God has been good to me and has carried me through the illness and now here I sit. Four years later, I’m alive and healthy. I could not have gotten through it without His guidance and love. Also my husband and family were so supportive. And my friends were so good to me. I even had a friend fly all the way from Memphis, TN to come and visit with me while I was recovering. All the girls I worked with were kind and supportive. I no longer work there but I still am friends with most of the girls that worked there with me at that time.

I have no idea why this happened to me. I can only hope and pray that if someone reads this that in some way it helps them in two ways. First to remember that God will never leave you to deal with this alone. He is carrying you right now. Second, don’t you ever give up hope and don’t you ever stop fighting. It is my desire to help other women who are going through breast cancer find hope. And to drive home the desire to never ever give up. Don’t stop fighting.

Now Birthdays are something I look forward to every year.

Paulette P Billy, Breast Cancer Patient

Thank you so much Breast Cancer Society for your financial support. I can hardly find words to express how much this have meant to my husband and I as my health have declined due to side effects of the treatments. The checks have helped me pay for some of the new medications that I am on.

Your organization has been a tremendous blessing to so many people. Please keep up the good work and I look forward to giving back one day.

Paulette

Laura, Breast Cancer Patient

Good morning. Hope you had a great July 4th. Of course for me I feel so blessed to be able to spend it with my family. It was this time last year when I found my cancer. It is hard to believe it has been a year since my changed so much. Thank you again so much for the check. It really helps with the medications and doctor visits.

Justina, Breast Cancer Patient

Hi! I am rather shocked because yesterday in the mail I received two checks from your organization which I can not find words to express my gratitude. I thought though that this month I has to re-apply or was this just a Christmas angel looking out for my daughter and I?
 What ever it maybe , I deeply thank you. I pray to God every night that there could be more people like you and the others in your organization. If come January you do need me to fill out the application, please to not hesitate to forward onto me.
 I hope you and your family has a wonderful blessed Holiday season.

Warmest regards,

Justina

Jennifer, Breast Cancer Patient

I just wanted to email and say THANK YOU for the financial assistance during the past few months, and especially the “Christmas bonus” I received this month. I am a single mom battling breast cancer and finances are really tight. God bless you!
Jennifer

Ellie, Breast Cancer Patient

I just wanted to let you know I received the check and I can’t thank the Breast Cancer Society enough. I was finally able to go and buy some groceries. 
It’s so degrading to get to this point when I was always a self sufficient woman, had a good job, made good money. Now I have nothing. 
All the money I saved, gone because of one disease. So thank you again for your help.
Sincerely,
 Ellie

Dana, Breast Cancer Patient

May 2, 2008

Dear Mr. James Reingold and staff at The Breast Cancer Society:

My children and I would like to again thank you for the checks we received from The
Breast Cancer Society over the past several months. The money we have received has
gone to pay for our health insurance premium. As I explained in my previous letter, my
ex-husband has not met any monetary obligations to us including yet not limited to
paying our COBRA insurance. Changing insurance companies, or rather, being
dependent on government assisted health care would have force me to change doctors,
place of treatment and most likely interrupted my course of chemo therapy treatments
during this important time while I battle my fight with breast cancer.

Our journey continues. I had my fifth of eight rounds of chemo-therapy two weeks ago.
As my treatments have continued, my health has become more fragile yet I have learned
and my children have become accustom to accept when “mommy needs a nap”.
I have enclosed a few pictures of my children from Easter. We have moved through this
challenging time passing each month with the celebration of holidays and family
birthdays.

I look forward to the time when I may “pay it forward” to others that are dealing with
such challenging times as we are now. It is my hope that my children will respect and
honor the generosity of others and the importance of giving to others. Being able to
accept your kindness with grace and later give to others in the future is the best life lesson
I can give to my children and because of this I am able to view my battle with breast
cancer as a blessing.

Sincerely,

Dana Bell

Robin, Breast Cancer Patient

Robin, Breast Cancer Patient

Nancy, Breast Cancer Patient

Leslie, Breast Cancer Patient

Elizabeth, Breast Cancer Patient

Antoinette, Breast Cancer Patient

Hello Mr. Reynolds,
Hope to find you well. I want to “Thank you” from the bottom of my heart for the assistance you have given me these last two months! What a blessing! I just called your office and left a message for you. I was hoping to apply for assistance again for the upcoming months. I know you said that I would have to apply again in June. I just can’t believe it’s right around the corner, this year is just flying by.

I just started my second chemo drug-Taxol and tomorrow will be my second treatment. So far so good the Lord is looking out for me. I have 11 more treatments and then comes radiation. Let the countdown begin.

I wanted to ask you about the photo you had asked about. Curious, would you be putting them on newsletters or your website?

Thank you so very much and God bless you,
Antoinette
2 Tim 1:7

Glenda, Breast Cancer Patient

Inflammatory Breast Cancer Foundation, Breast Cancer Partner

Queen, Breast Cancer Patient

Dear Laura:

I reached out to NBCS in my darkest hour, and you Angels of Mercy literary saved me and/or my son’s life! I can never thank you enough. First, Laura, your warm personal email boosted my spirits and gave me hope. Then, NBCS’S check proved that I am truly not alone. Thank God for leading me to your web site.

I have been struggling with sickness and financially for over five years, and that dark cloud over my head was getting progressively darker until NBCS stepped in and stopped me from giving up. I need/appreciate your help for however long you are able to accommodate me. And one day, when I am hopefully back on my feet and again a productive citizen, I’ll know what organization to wholeheartedly support/contribute to, knowing for a certainty that you all are providing a tremendous service to desperate, hurting people like myself.

Thanks again, and may God bless all of you all’s efforts.

Regards,
Queen